Health Writer • Author • Essayist

Writing the things we don't say out loud

First-person stories and evidence-based health writing on the topics polite conversation skips.

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Featured Work

TIME

The Problem With Watching Porn & Playing Video Games—For Girls

HIMS & HERS

A Sex-Positive Look Inside Today’s Curated Sex Parties

HUFFPOST

I Should Have Friends by Now

Book

Getting Off (Simon & Schuster)

A raw, unflinching memoir of sex and porn addiction, and the messy, human work of recovery.

“In reading Garza’s insight into her own experiences, we better understand ourselves.”
The New York Times Book Review

Glamour

"Why More Women Are Exploring Sex Tourism"

Business Insider

"We Raised Our Daughter Abroad. She Barely Remembers It."

Salon

"My Feminist Dilemma at the Peep Show"

The Cut

"Addicted to Shame"

VICE

"I Was a Jealous Partner Until I Went on a Swingers Vacation"

Refinery29

"The Moment I Realized I Was So Jealous—And What I Did About It"